Issues that are never addressed become held grudges. Those become wars because everyone wants to draw lines, address their case. We talk but never talk to the right people. Fighting is the answer because the grudge is ready to explode. Doesn't matter who's right who NEEDS to address the issue 1st, cuz if both sides don't, who's right in the 1st place? No one will ever be the bigger person, henceforth the nonsense. That's all I have to say.